![]() While more positive responses came flooding in, I became increasingly nauseated I felt like I was violating these people and overstepping boundaries.Īfter several brief and sporadic periods of back-and-forth messaging on Bumble, I grew weary of my experiment. I started to feel disgusted with my behaviour, even though most of the guys I was talking to responded favourably. In my case, my first instinct would be to unmatch, while some of my friends would report and block these profiles.Īs I sent vag pic after vag pic, my amusement soon devolved into uneasiness as I grew aware of the fact I was not enjoying this. None of these men unmatched me, which starkly contrasts how most women I know would react. Obviously, I wasn’t using a real picture of my vag since Singapore has a law that prohibits the distribution of pornographic material, and let’s just say getting arrested isn’t on my 2018 bucket list.Īnd surprisingly, only 15% (3 out of 20 guys) responded negatively, and it wasn’t even them being icked out-two of them accused me of being a spambot and the last guy said he prefers “to know a person a bit first”. Rule number 2: I was to swipe right on every single guy from ages 21 to 30 I came across, even if they weren’t someone I would personally date. Monica is 25, likes “chocolate and tea and BOOKS”, and life’s motto is “I know what I want and I work for it”. I went by the moniker ‘Monica Cheng’ which is a big throwback to Things I Found Funny in Primary School. I wanted to find out what would happen if I, a straight woman in her early 20s, adopted the behaviour of an f-boy online for a couple of days.īumble was the dating app I chose because it lets you send pictures within the app, unlike others in the market.īefore I embarked on my experiment, I laid down some ground rules. I wanted to see what it felt like to send someone an unbidden photo of your crotch. OkCupid, Tinder, and Bumble all seem like vastly different dating sites, but sending women a picture of their penis is a common mating dance on these apps for some men, and I desperately wanted to know why. I’ve gotten an innumerable amount of unsolicited male genitalia pictures in my (far too many) years of online dating. ![]() *I am using the word ‘vagina’ instead of ‘vulva’ for the sake of brevity.
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